Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Philly Cheesesteaks ~ Wordless Wednesday
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Father Figures
I don't think it's any secret that I am a "Daddy's girl." I have a great relationship with both of my parents but my mom and I really had to struggle through the adolescent years to come through with this wonderful relationship. My dad was always the one that played games and read books with me. My brother and sister were older than me and when they didn't want to be annoyed by me any longer, my dad would step in and play the five millionth round of Candy Land!
Even though my relationship with my dad was strong, I was always thankful for the other "father figures" in my life. Whether it was our youth minister or the dad of a friend, there was no shortage of strong, caring male role models around. My husband, John, was lucky enough to have these, too. He had one in particular. Mr. Bryan. Mr. Bryan was the father of John's best friend growing up in Dallas. My husband and his friend were up to all kinds of mischief in their neighborhood, some of it we have on videotape. John had a great relationship with his own father. His father loved him well and taught him so much about love and life and business. I am so thankful for John's parents because they raised this wonderful man that is my partner in every way. Mr. Bryan, well Mr. Bryan invited John to church.
When John and I got married almost fifteen years ago we had our engagement portrait at our reception for all of our friends to sign. There are some very touching things written and some very funny things, (thanks Tyler and Bradley!) On the left side, two-thirds of the way down is this quote.
Sorry this is so blurry, but it says "Hi John, come to church w/Kevin and us this weekend-Lee Bryan 1979." My husband went to church with them. He wound up joining that church at the age of 17 and becoming very involved in the youth ministry program. John found his calling there. He graduated from college with a business degree, but his heart was called to youth ministry. He graduated from the Presbyterian School of Christian Education at Union Seminary in Richmond, Virginia and went on to have a very successful twenty-something year career before "retiring" from professional youth ministry last year. The roots of John's faith came from the family he was born into, and the Bryans provided the opportunity for his faith to grow.
Why am I thinking about all of this today? Mr. Bryan passed away last week. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year and fought valiantly until it was time to stop fighting. Last Saturday we were able to go and be there for his memorial service and spend a little time with the family. They are so full of love and faith. Even in the midst of such a sad occasion, they were a joy to be with. And to Mr. Bryan, thank you. Thank you for loving and caring so well for your own family and for the others that crossed your path. Thank you for sharing your faith.
Lee and Susan Bryan at our wedding November 11, 1995
And for the rest of us, you do not know the lifelong impact your words and interactions might have. Whenever possible, speak and reach out in love! And whenever you can, in any way you can, fight cancer!
Even though my relationship with my dad was strong, I was always thankful for the other "father figures" in my life. Whether it was our youth minister or the dad of a friend, there was no shortage of strong, caring male role models around. My husband, John, was lucky enough to have these, too. He had one in particular. Mr. Bryan. Mr. Bryan was the father of John's best friend growing up in Dallas. My husband and his friend were up to all kinds of mischief in their neighborhood, some of it we have on videotape. John had a great relationship with his own father. His father loved him well and taught him so much about love and life and business. I am so thankful for John's parents because they raised this wonderful man that is my partner in every way. Mr. Bryan, well Mr. Bryan invited John to church.
When John and I got married almost fifteen years ago we had our engagement portrait at our reception for all of our friends to sign. There are some very touching things written and some very funny things, (thanks Tyler and Bradley!) On the left side, two-thirds of the way down is this quote.
Sorry this is so blurry, but it says "Hi John, come to church w/Kevin and us this weekend-Lee Bryan 1979." My husband went to church with them. He wound up joining that church at the age of 17 and becoming very involved in the youth ministry program. John found his calling there. He graduated from college with a business degree, but his heart was called to youth ministry. He graduated from the Presbyterian School of Christian Education at Union Seminary in Richmond, Virginia and went on to have a very successful twenty-something year career before "retiring" from professional youth ministry last year. The roots of John's faith came from the family he was born into, and the Bryans provided the opportunity for his faith to grow.
Why am I thinking about all of this today? Mr. Bryan passed away last week. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last year and fought valiantly until it was time to stop fighting. Last Saturday we were able to go and be there for his memorial service and spend a little time with the family. They are so full of love and faith. Even in the midst of such a sad occasion, they were a joy to be with. And to Mr. Bryan, thank you. Thank you for loving and caring so well for your own family and for the others that crossed your path. Thank you for sharing your faith.
And for the rest of us, you do not know the lifelong impact your words and interactions might have. Whenever possible, speak and reach out in love! And whenever you can, in any way you can, fight cancer!
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Wordless Wednesday 9/8/10 Walt Disney World
The Walt Disney World Mom's Panel will begin accepting applications for the 2011 panel on Monday, September 13th. That's five days from now. FIVE! I have Disney on the brain. I even saw a Mickey Mouse in the clouds today. When I saw Resourceful Mommy's adorable Wordless Wednesday I thought I would put up a picture from one of my favorite trips to Walt Disney World. This was in February of 2006 at Animal Kingdom and my parents are surrounded by all of their grandchildren.
If you have posted your own Wordless Wednesday, go to Resourceful Mommy and link up! If you are applying to be on the Mom's Panel, good luck! Maybe we'll be on the panel together, after all, "a dream is a wish your heart makes!"
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